As well as affecting your mentality and the way you approach life, smoking weed can also damage the relationship you have with your spouses.
This was no different for me and some of my previous girlfriends. As my pot obsession grew and grew I was beginning to lose sight for any of the goals I set out to achieve early in my life, including my dream of having a healthy marriage and at some point, a family.
Of course, I have this now but it took some really hard work for me to achieve. I ended up going through quite a few relationships because of my addiction and lost a lot of people in my life that I held very dear to me.
In some ways I’m happy I went through these tough times, because they helped me realise that I needed help and forced me to want to overcome it, but at the same time I’d never wish these circumstances on anyone. Which is one of the reasons why I started this site, to prevent as many people as I can from going through the same experiences I did.
If you have someone (a boyfriend or girlfriend) in the same situation as I was and you want to do something about it before things get really bad then this is what you need to do.
Approach the problem in baby steps
Straight up telling your significant other that they need to quit smoking weed will do little to help them, in fact, it’ll likely do the opposite.
Instead, begin hinting at them every now and then that you’d like them to stop and that you prefer being around them when they’re not high. This continual little reminder will begin to reinforce the idea to them that they need to stop, instead of building up any resentment towards you like straight up telling them would.
Begin by asking them not to smoke for one day each week and as time goes on, build this to two days, then three and so on. It will probably take a while but eventually, they won’t want to smoke every day without any input from you (they might still want to smoke every weekly but not as frequently as they use to).
This is what you want to aim for and is a great place for them to start on their road to recovery. Also, you need to remember to reward them for doing what you ask otherwise they’ll be very unlikely to progress each week. This can be whatever you want and I’ll leave you to the details.
Just make sure it’s something significant!
Once you’ve managed to get your boyfriend/girlfriend to stop smoking for about 3 days each week, or if nothing you do seems to be working, then I think it’s time to enrol them in The Quit Weed Programme.
This is the program that changed my life for the better and I think it will be the thing that’ll take them over the edge. Here’s a look at its most useful parts.
This guide covers many things such as REAL-LIFE Solutions that actually work, the one thing your spouse should never do while trying to quit and the ONE sneaky secret to banish their cravings.
This is a natural course that will detox their body without using dangerous artificial man-made detox kits and is designed specifically to reduce cravings and eliminate withdrawals associated with marijuana.
Please Note: There is plenty of free information on this website but the course I joined is great for people that are serious about stopping weed as quickly as possible.
This is what your girlfriend/boyfriend will use after completing the program. It assists them with following through while also helping them replace their addiction with healthy alternatives.
This program is designed to take anyone from a heavy smoker to a non-smoker quickly with the help of subliminal messaging so they can quit weed easily.
THE COURSE I JOINED
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